Hurray ! to motherhood

I always had the question of when did I become a mom. I was under the pretext that the moment I saw the 2 pink lines I become a mother NO, when I felt the first kick NOO, when I saw the little smile for the first time NO not at all 

So what's the answer for the million dollar question in me. I started becoming a mother when I started to realize there is a small brain and heart thinking about me and loving me. Motherhood is a journey which we have to enjoy every moment and growing along with the baby. A mother is born along with the baby she has to grow up with the baby. 

Initial days of motherhood isnt a cake walk for many. A mother needs time to adjust with the little one sleepless nights, tandem feeding, eating habits, breastmilk supply and many other changes so a few days to weeks she needs to spend to learn accept motherhood. She needs all the support from her family. Understand her love her more than before and more than all express your love towards her. A love that is not expressed is utterly useless. This love should majorly come from the husband. A hug and smile from the husband means a lot to a women. 

A mother has pain from her delivery along with her hormones acting upon making her emotionally weak making her a cry baby. When she cries she needs a shoulder to support when she feels tired she needs a supporting hand to say I am here to help you don't worry if you are making mistakes its all fine.

Becoming a mother isnt an exam where the relatives and extended family takes the role of an examiner to judge the baby and the mother. A baby is a baby irrespective of the the size, color and beauty. 

A mother is equally important as the baby itself. 

All mommies reading this enjoy your motherhood to the fullest.

Happiness within me

I was always doubtful of how others stay happy. My imagination was their life is happy which makes them smile and enjoy life. I have been traveling with this ideology for decades. I used to live in a state of confusion and halusination keeping unreachable goals forgetting the achiveble targets. These sentences might look unconnected. But deep into the concept of consciousness everything means the same. When we take responsibility of ourselves we try to dominate life. So it's not life which brings happiness and sadness to us. It's we ourselves who brings both. 

Then there might be a question when life tests us with a tough task how to be happy. Yes there are times when we can't be happy but we should overcome from them at the earliest. With the way to inner peace we can overcome tougher times. To achive something big we need to frame a plan set short term goals achieve them and slowly move forward. 

Success doesn't come in a day. Success has it s meaning in the way and path it is achieved.

Me post

I am a content writer by profession writer by passion. I am called Lakshmi by all, latchu ma by close ones lux by  very close buddies. I am a 90 s kid having a four year old kid for myself. A happy to go person with a loving family around me.

I am a blogger and a creative writer. I love reading books specially fiction and self help  genre books. I am learning my course of being a mommy. I was a researcher by profession now on a career break as I am already engaged with my mommy course full time and my teacher cum trainer (my son) never gives me a break at all,  as he keeps me engaged with this lessons, pranks, toys, cuteness and hugs. All these a part of the curriculum. 

I am interested in blog writing , content writing, technical writing and being virtual assistant.